Saturday, July 20, 2013

One Day Before

I wanted to meet him
but I held my intention
postponed my desire
I thought ...
still plenty of time
there is always a chance
that will also arrive tomorrow
I live with so ease
no load and pressure
I sleet like a baby
very very well
and not even dreamt
I passed one day before as usual
no signs or hunch
when in fact...
I have been waste of time
my precious time
events that can not be repeated
trifle away that moment
Moment on one day before

Friday, July 19, 2013

Quotes About Father --- Part 3

A father is a banker provided by nature. ~ French Proverb

Grandparents are God's way of compensating us for growing old.

Children aren't happy with nothing to ignore,
and that's what parents were created for.
~Ogden Nash~
(American humorist)

"To her the name of father was another name for love." ~By Fanny Fern~

"A man's children and his garden both reflect
the amount of weeding done during the growing season."~Author Unknown~

Thursday, July 18, 2013

Quotes About Father --- Part 2

"I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection." -- Sigmund Freud

"Blessed indeed is the man who hears many gentle voices call him father!" -- Lydia M. Child

Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys. --- Anon

"The greatest gift I ever had Came from God, and I call him Dad!" ~Author Unknown~

"A father is a guy who has snapshots in his wallet where his money used to be." ~Author Unknown~

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Quotes About Father --- Part 1

"By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong".~Charles Wadsworth~

If the new American fathers feel bewildered and even defeated, let them take comfort from the fact that whatever they do in any fathering situation has a fifty percent chance of being right.
~Bill Cosby~

"It is a wise father that knows his own child." -- William Shakespeare

"One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters." -- English Proverb

"It doesn't matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was." -- Anne Sexton

Sunday, July 14, 2013

They Reminded Me of You

When I choose my clothes,
I remembered that shirt you bought me
When I eat at the dine table
I remembered you were sitting there eating food mom
When I watch TV
I remembered you were looking at boxing or football match and news
When I came out into the yard
I remembered you with attentive care for the plants
and stepped into the street
I remembered you just pump your favorite bike
Wherever and whenever
they keep the memories of you
who does not want me to forget

Thursday, July 11, 2013

Forever Remain


your guiding hand on my shoulder...

will remain with me forever.


Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Having a Real Father is a Blessing

It is easier for a father to have children than for children to have a real father.

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Tell These To Your Father

1. “I’m a lucky girl.”

Not everyone has a guy in their life that they can call dad, so make sure you let your dad know how fortunate you really are for him and all the perks that come along with being his little girl.

2. “Thank you Daddy.”

Your dad does a lot. Make sure you show those good manners and appreciation by saying thanks every now and again. It will show him he raised a polite young woman and also a grateful one—two wonderful qualities that’ll make him proud.

3. “What do you think about this?”

When’s the last time you went to dad for an advice? Well maybe you should start! He’ll give you a fresh viewpoint and also a guy’s perspective. He can also let you know if what you’re doing is appropriate or not.

4. “I still need you.”

Believe it or not, dad wants you to need him. As you get older and more independent, he wants to still know that you’re still a daddy’s girl. So let him know! Besides, who’s going to squash the huge bug on your ceiling?

5. “I love you.”

And finally, what’s more important than these three little words. Mom loves to hear it and so does dad. Sure, he already knows, but hearing it makes the parenting experience even sweeter. Say it, it’s not hard or time consuming!

You can tell these to your Father anytime, but why not now?

Monday, July 8, 2013

Things You May Not Know About Your Father --- Part 3 (End of Part)

19. Dad would just shake your hand when you first wander away leaving home, as though if he hugged you then he could never let you go.

20. Dad didn't like to shed a tear. When you were born and you were crying, he heard for the first time, he was very happy and tear came out of his eyes (But once again this is not a cry).

21. When you were kid, he hugged you to chase away your fear ... like when you had nightmare

22. But, it turns out he can cry and can not sleep through the night, when his daughter did not give him any news for almost one month.

23. Father once said, "If you want to get a sharp and high quality sword, do not look for it in the market or Junkman, but come and order directly from the blacksmith. Likewise with love and friends in your life, if someday you want to get your true love, then ask and order from Who created it"

24. Father can make you confident, because he trusts you.

25. Dad did not try to be the best, but he's just trying to do his best.

26. For his son's future, father advised, "Be more powerful and strong than me, choose a good woman to be a mother for your children. Provide better for my daughter-in-law and my grandchildren, than what I have give to you ".

27. And for his daughter's future, father advised, "Do not be a crybaby though you're a woman, be my little angel and the best angel for your husband and children. Find a man who can protect you more than me, but don't ever replace father's position in your heart "

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Things You May Not Know About Your Father --- Part 2

10. Father always pray that we could be successful in the world and the hereafter, even though we rarely pray for him.

11. Father will give you the best seat on his shoulders when the carnival or circus parade passed.

12. Father will not spoil you when you are sick, but he will not fall asleep all night long. Who knows you need him.

13. Father believed people should be timely. Therefore he is always waiting for you earlier.

14. Father would forget what he wanted, to be able to give you what you needed.

15. He stopped what he was doing, when you want to talk.

16. He is always thinking and working hard to pay your school each semester, although you never thought about it and how he got it.

17. Dad would say, "Ask your mother," when he wanted to say, "No".

18. Father more proud of his children grades, rather than his own achievement.

Saturday, July 6, 2013

Things You May Not Know About Your Father --- Part 1

1. Father wants his children to have more opportunities than him.

2. Father wanted his children to be not dependent on anyone, and always in need of his presence.

3. Dad let you win the game when you were kid, but he did not want you to let him win when you are adult.

4. Mostly father is rare in the family photo album, because he always take the picture.

5. Dad started planning your life when he knew that your mother was pregnant, but once you were born, he began to make revisions.

6. Dad helps make your dreams come true and he could convince you to do impossible things, like swimming in the water once he let go.

7. Father may not know the answer of everything, but he helps you to look for it.

8. Father knows best how to swing high enough to get you excited but not scared.

9. Father would be very happy to buy food for you after he came home from work, even though he could not get part of the meal.

Thursday, July 4, 2013

My Dad My Hero

I Love You Daddy <3


Sense of Loss

Variety of senses in the world
that we all have felt
light and dark feeling
But for me... sense of loss is the saddest
unwell, confusing, and painful
very upset and didn't know what to do

Many things cannot be replaced
and when you lose
you cannot see it anymore
or touch it
Even if you try as hard as you can
and would pay as dearly as possible

Gone is gone
means it will not return
endless search...
expectations depend...
We never wish and didn't want to lose
but time will take without warning

No need to hold it tightly as the fear of losing,
it will make it disappear faster
Only must and always do
love, respect, and prove while it was here
So that when the time take it
we feel relieved to let it go